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I came across an article recently about an increasing trend amongst older people to continue studying and to find love at a late age. I thought this one really took the cake because the man got his last University degree at the age of 86 and recently, at the age of 98, he just got married again. I wonder what you all think of that?
On the one hand, obviously people must find love whenever they find it, and if they are happy, they are happy. I think sometimes it is a bit of a shock to the children, grandchildren and probably, in his case, great grandchildren who might have assumed that the love of his life was their mother/grandmother/ great grandmother. Is it wrong for people to remarry after the death of their major love of their lives? What do you think about people studying, I guess for their own interest, because at that point it will not turn into money at that type of age? What about people getting married at that age?
Posted by Michael de Broglio on Friday 08-Sep-17
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Nicolle said:
on Monday 02-Oct-17 02:20 PM
I have so many things that I would like to say, there just isn't enough time or space (I also lack the ability to conduce my particular opinion on this topic) to comment sufficiently.
However, one is never to old to learn! Secondly, there is noting wrong with remarrying.
Cornelie said:
on Monday 02-Oct-17 09:36 AM
I don’t really see a need to study at that age as I can’t see what you will benefit, getting married at that age no problem if there is love and happiness why not spend it together for the last few years of your life.
Cornelie said:
on Monday 02-Oct-17 09:36 AM
I don’t really see a need to study at that age as I can’t see what you will benefit, getting married at that age no problem if there is love and happiness why not spend it together for the last few years of your life.
Nikita said:
on Friday 29-Sep-17 04:59 PM
I think that studying will keep your mind young and strong. They say you are only as old as the chick you are feeling :) Life should not have time limits in any aspect
Suzanne said:
on Tuesday 26-Sep-17 09:07 AM
I will probably keep studying until a late age, but this is pretty extreme! On the topic of remarrying/marrying much older - I think it is a wonderful thing to find love at whatever age - even if it means remarrying after the passing of someone. As long as you can still find joy out of this world, embrace it!
melindi said:
on Thursday 21-Sep-17 11:23 AM
There is no age limit to falling in love and finding someone that you want to share your life with. Just shows you its never too late to achieve anything you desire.
Ashleigh said:
on Tuesday 19-Sep-17 08:59 AM
This man probably wanted to achieve things before his time ends which is great. It was probably on his bucket list. I do believe that everyone has a second chance at life and you can make it a happy ending if you choose to.
Brenda Du Toit said:
on Tuesday 19-Sep-17 08:49 AM
I think it’s terrible to grow old alone.You will always fine your true love at the end .It doesn't matter how old you are.
Liesl said:
on Friday 15-Sep-17 04:58 PM
No problems here, if the motive is correct it doesn't matter. I personally think to obtain a degree at 86 regardless of whether it holds financial benefits is awesome, you are now doing it for yourself - it's personal. If you find true love you find it, then so what about the age
Angelique Jurgens said:
on Tuesday 12-Sep-17 03:52 PM
I agree with Daniella, you can't expect people not to get remarried after their loved one dies. I was selfish when I was younger and did not want my mom to ever have a boyfriend once my died had died which is probably the reason why she only dated when we were all older. I definitely feel bad and can imagine how lonely she must have felt. My feels on it are that everyone deserves love no matter how old they are. With regards to studying that is definitely inspiring and those people probably live longer just due to the fact that they are keeping busy! If someone is studying in their old age it definitely must mean that they have a keen interest in the particular subject - education at that age should be for free!
Thabitha said:
on Tuesday 12-Sep-17 02:14 PM
Maybe its because they wanted to study for that degree when they were young and couldn't at that time, when coming to love we don't need to assume anything people are not the same no one is replaceable.
Mathilda said:
on Tuesday 12-Sep-17 09:15 AM
I think you should live your life to the fullest and this person definitely did, I mean getting married at 98….Damn this man must be the smoothest most charming guy ever or very rich just saying lol
Study and get as many degrees as you want at any age
Spend your life with someone you truly love
So many people try to live their lives to other people’s approval
And if your Husband /wife passed away I don’t see any problem in getting remarried
Zindy said:
on Tuesday 12-Sep-17 07:46 AM
Wow! Shows that love has no boundaries. To accomplish that near the end of your life and still find love and companionship at the age of 98 gives the rest of us hope! Lol
Prishani said:
on Monday 11-Sep-17 04:58 PM
I don’t think age should matter when it comes to choosing a partner. It is human nature to want to have someone special to make memories with and share moments with, it is abit weird thinking of my granddad finding a partner, but it would be unfair to expect a person not to find a romantic partner just because of their age! Same with studying, an eagerness to learn should not just disappear because of age.
Sarah said:
on Monday 11-Sep-17 04:44 PM
I don't think you are to old to get marry and if happiness founds you at that age its great. If you lose a love one , does not mean your life should stop as well. They should found happiness and love
Natasha said:
on Monday 11-Sep-17 04:38 PM
I think everyone should be happy we cant say something because what if it was us in their shoes if you find love at an old age its kind of cute to see how they hold hands and kiss each other. I think if you want to continue to study when you are old you should do it its better then sitting at home doing nothing maybe they enjoy it, but on the other side... if you that old and you study what are you going to do with what ever you study?
Zanell said:
on Monday 11-Sep-17 04:31 PM
I think all old people should find a partner, even if they don't get married, it is better then being lonely everyday.
Nina said:
on Monday 11-Sep-17 09:57 AM
I believe you should do what makes you happy, no matter your age. It is great that people still find love at a later stage after being divorced or losing a loved one. I definitely cannot see myself studying at an age like that, but if it makes you happy and you are in a position to do it, why not.
patrick said:
on Monday 11-Sep-17 08:30 AM
it bolis down to the old saying that gae is nothing but a number. that it can be done no matter how.
Clare said:
on Monday 11-Sep-17 08:03 AM
I think this is awesome, you are never to old to learn and never to old to find love after love.. People must never underestimate old people, I am telling you one day when I am a granny I will become a Ninja.
Joyce said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 04:59 PM
Some families prefer taking their old ones to Old Age Homes where they will be look after and the families would just sometimes go and visit their parent, I think maybe if the person get bored and was a brilliant and intelligent person at their young age think of something that will be interesting and that will keep busy like studying and getting married again
Nicky said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 04:03 PM
I always imagine that reaching old age is a very boring and lonely time in one's life-so if people can find something to make life more exciting and busy by finding love or studying or both-good for them.
Michelle said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 12:59 PM
There are no limits to love. I do not think it’s strange to get married again after your loved one has passed away. I just think it gets a little bit harder to marry the older you get, as there is a lot more people involved. As for studies 86 years old is a bit hectic for me I mean 99.9% of the population are already on pension at that age.
Daniella said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 12:49 PM
I think the worst thing you could do is make someone feel guilty about finding happiness after loosing a spouse obviously not immediately after, but nobody wants to be lonely their whole life. in regards to the education i think it is amazing that at that age you still have the drive to learn more and educate yourself. usually when people get to a certain age they feel that they know all they need to.
Tamaryn said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 10:22 AM
I think we all just want to be happy, and if studying or finding love or anything else makes you happy at that point in time - go for it! No matter your age! No-one can sit back and say so and so does not deserve happiness because of some sort of disapproval they may have. We all deserve to be happy- and we all find it in different ways at different times. I would like to meet this man and give him the biggest hug ever!!
Alexis said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 09:15 AM
People should find happiness where they can. I do not see it as being wrong at all and I am quite happy to hear such a story. Being at that age as well, it is difficult to be alone and people need that comfort and someone to be there for them. Gives them something to live for. Kudos as well for learning - may not be used but keeps the mind busy
Liz said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 08:54 AM
I think it is so important to continue learning and developing your brain no matter your age. People tend to age very quickly if they become passive and do not keep feeding their brains new information. My grandfather has always been an inspiration to me, as he translated the work of Johannes Calvyn from Latin to Afrikaans and had this published when he was 77 years old. Regarding remarriage, I think if you have lost your loved one and the time is right one should not spend the rest of your life alone.
Anna said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 08:50 AM
At the end of the day we all just want companionship and someone to enjoy the small and big events in our life with. Why should this be any different at age 24, 47, 65 or 98?
Angelique P said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 08:47 AM
Whaaaaat??? I guess you’re never too old to get married again lol. I think that you can marry again if that person really makes you happy. Everybody deserves a happy life with someone they love. I think it’s terrible to grow old alone.
Melissa van Tellingen said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 08:37 AM
When I was in university there was an aunty studying with me and she was 62 at the time. I am a strong believer in doing whatever makes you happy. I think a lot of people have different views on remarriage after losing the love of your life. I'm all for people perusing their love but I think I will feel a lot different when it comes to my mom and dad remarrying.
Jadine Richards said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 08:35 AM
Its pretty impressive to be able to find love at that age so if it happens I am all for it. With regards to the studies however, I don't see the point. I don't see why one would want to put themselves through classes, research, assessments and exams if you aren't going to earn anything from it. Personal development does not seem like enough of a motivating factor however, each to their own.
Bianca R said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 08:34 AM
I am quite a firm believer in not remarrying after your spouse has passed away, that's just my opinion and I know a lot of people don't share the same one. With regards to studying late in life, I know of a lot of people that enjoy the discipline that goes along with studying and for that reason, a lot of people continue to study throughout their lives. I believe though that it is never too late to do anything, regardless of what it is, if you want to do it, don't let anything limit you.
Bianca N said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 08:23 AM
I think that if you remarry after your wife / husband has passed away that as long as it makes you happy it's okay.
Jessica Apfel said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 07:50 AM
I strongly agree with 'older persons' persuing their studies - My mom is one such examply. At the age of 55 she has commenced her Bcom Degree and I couldnt be prouder. As for love, you cannot deny a person happiness and cannot expect them to lead a lonely life either - it often that a remarriage after the death of loved one is mainly for the sake of companionship!
Celeste said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 07:30 AM
I think its kind of sweet for old people to remarry and renew their vows, even after a loved one has passed away. its not always about money. some people with marry only for love.
Jadine E said:
on Friday 08-Sep-17 07:03 AM
No matter at what age whether it has monetary or just an achievement, educating yourself is important.
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