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Time Magazine recently had an article listing a number of ways for people to make themselves happier. It includes letting go of grudges as well as paying somebody to do something that you normally would do to give yourself some more time. That apparently will give you more happiness than spending the same amount of money that it would cost you to pay that person on something for yourself, because having more time is more important to most people than new things.
One of the bigger points they make though was how the constant exposure to social media is really beginning to wear people down. Some studies have indicated that people who use Facebook frequently have poor physical and mental health and much less life satisfaction. They also found that the more people look to social media, the more likely they were to be anxious. On sites like Instagram they say it allows us to compare and there is no doubt that sites like Facebook and Twitter have a constant stream of news, some of which is presented in a very stressful way. The advice includes limiting yourself to one social platform only and also taking a short break – people who apparently cut themselves off from Facebook for a whole week reported feeling far more positive compared to those people who keep using Facebook as usual.
I myself went off Facebook and I wrote about it in this blog many years ago and I am really glad I did. I think social media addicts really toss away far too much time which they could spend more happily and productively actually living their lives and doing things that make them happier. If you are a social media addict, try and limit yourself to one platform for the next week and try, if you can, to take yourself off Facebook for one whole week – even if that requires deleting the app off your phone.
Posted by Michael de Broglio on Monday 27-Nov-17
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Liesl said:
on Friday 01-Dec-17 12:24 PM
Social media is not a bug that has bitten me. I can quite happily go for months on end without even looking at my facebook page. But for people who are quite addicted to social platforms
Joyce said:
on Friday 01-Dec-17 12:15 PM
I think it is a good advise to take a brake on Facebook , at times I see people so frustrated busy on Facebook.
Tamaryn said:
on Friday 01-Dec-17 11:41 AM
I think a social media "cleanse" every so often is a good idea. I am only on one social media platform - anything more than that would drive me crazy. I also merrily ignore everything I wish to ignore on social media.
Suzanne said:
on Friday 01-Dec-17 10:40 AM
I do think that letting go of social media will make you a happier person. We will "save" so much time if we aren't scrolling through our phones the whole evening or weekend. I must admit, this will be hard for me, but I do think it's a change all of us should make.
Nicky said:
on Friday 01-Dec-17 10:13 AM
I agree. I find social media too intrusive and people tend to compare themselves with what they see on social media without realizing that people just put on social media what they'd like people to see, which isn't always an accurate portrayal of the actual situation.
Liz said:
on Friday 01-Dec-17 09:11 AM
I wholeheartedly agree with this. While we browse social media, all we tend to do is compare ourselves and our lifestyles wit those of other people, which in fact just ensures that we will never be completely content. We are also bombarded with so much information that it makes it difficult to focus on one article or piece of information at a time. I think the advice in the blog article is definitely something to consider.
Zindy said:
on Friday 01-Dec-17 07:37 AM
Some people today cant function without social media I have seen this so many times. The world would be a generally happier place without social media but I guess it creates jobs to.
Jadine E said:
on Friday 01-Dec-17 07:05 AM
Social media has a negative way of isolating you. Even in company you always have to log on and see the latest posts and updates.
Ashleigh said:
on Thursday 30-Nov-17 03:48 PM
I agree fully. Social media is highly addictive and is more of a negative impact in your life than positive. I am really considering deleting my facebook account. The only other social media app that I have other than facebook is WhatsApp which is something I am also rarely ever on either.
Angelique P said:
on Thursday 30-Nov-17 07:11 AM
It’s so scary that social media is taking over our life’s. Most people do not even know how to talk to each other anymore. If you want to know something about a certain person just check on Facebook or Instagram and you will know exactly what is going on in that person’s life. I really feel sad for today’s children they are badly influence by this. It feels like we don’t know how to enjoy life anymore because we are constantly concerned about what other people will say or think.
Prishani said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 04:20 PM
I am a very private person, that’s why I never really took to social media! Many of my friends tell me I’m missing out. I really don’t think I am. I must say that I am sometimes in the dark with what’s happening on social media! But the important stuff always makes it to the news anyway right?
Jadine Richards said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 02:35 PM
I agree that the world would be a generally happier place without social media. Back in the day one would be able to be revel in even the smallest of their achievements, however, now we have constant reminders that there are others who have a lot more to be happier about than yourself.
Dune said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 02:27 PM
Social media, is the root of all evil. We should look back at how happier and healthier people were before social media trends kicked up. Instead of kids playing on their phone, Facebook Instagram, they were actually playing outside in the streets, etc. There are so many children that fall victims of suicide due to bad comments and trolling on social media.
Jolene said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 01:18 PM
I have to agree with you, social media is very addictive. I think we will all be much happier without social media, people can be so judgmental and rude.
Brenda Du Toit said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 12:07 PM
I believe you will be Happier without social media .I only use Facebook and WhatsApp.I like using facebook as it stores your photos
patrick said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 12:05 PM
Social Media has replaced a lot of things in our lifes . You will find two people seating together but smiling with their phones. One can understand why those who finish a week without face book for a week feel positive because there is a lot of depressing news in the social media.
Melissa said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 12:03 PM
I am not really a big fan of Facebook, I will use it now and then but Facebook has become so depressing with all the disgusting comments and photos.
Sarah said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 12:01 PM
I only use Facebook and whats app, but mostly whats app its cheaper to keep in contact. I agree fully people will be happier because they won't read such negative stuff and will live their lives and not worry what the other people are up too.
Jessica M said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 12:00 PM
I would actually have to agree with some of these points. I must say that social media does actually cause a lot of problems and anxiety seeing what is happening around you is sometimes better not to know.
Bianca N said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 11:58 AM
I don't really use Facebook as much as I used to, and it is definitely much better not checking your phone every two minutes but instead focusing on who is in front of you and actually communicating with people face to face.
Alexis said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 10:11 AM
Sjoe, if I go on Facebook it is quite something and if I do I just check out what others post and I rarely post anything - I am not a huge fan of social media to be honest and am not really part of much.
This world has made people this way....even the simplest thing of say applying foer a job, your potential employers will look at that
I remember watching an episode of How I met Your Mother where Ted was going on a date and it was stated to not look into each other at all...but it was difficult and he ended up ruining everything because what he found was intimidating instead of just getting to know her for her and not what she has done in life
Thabitha said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 09:31 AM
I always say when you want to open the devils door be addicted so social media then you will see, you will be unhappy person for no reason most of the time.
Melissa van Tellingen said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 08:15 AM
I maily use facebook and WhatsApp I agee that it can really steel time from you in the sense that you would rather be on social media than spending time with your family and friends. I like using facebook as it stores your photos and memories.
Michelle said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 07:35 AM
I truly think we will be much happier people without social media. At the moment I only make use of what's app obviously on a daily basis and then Facebook. Being on social media take a lot of your personal time and it’s so much better to enjoy company in person than to sit with your face in front of a screen all the time. I don’t think it’s something that will change very quickly as it became part of our everyday lives.
Tersia said:
on Wednesday 29-Nov-17 07:26 AM
I only use Facebook and Instagram but also only to check what other people post. I rarely post anything and must agree it does tend to make you sometimes depressed when people are sharing farm murders articles or how bad our Government is ect. I went off Facebook in the beginning of the year and I must admit that it does make you slightly more happier - to not know everyone's business and issues does make you feel less anxious.
Nikita said:
on Tuesday 28-Nov-17 04:06 PM
I only use Facebook and Instagram. I actually have an Instagram page entirely dedicated to my dogs which I am a lot more active on than my personal Instagram page. I find Facebook to be very boring at times but it does help when you need to pass time. I use it to mainly store photos and share photos with family and friends.
Bianca R said:
on Tuesday 28-Nov-17 10:37 AM
I often find myself deactivating my Facebook account as I find it simply draining and everyday, the status updates etc are becoming more and more negative. I have heard about this detoxing from social media and even Whatsapp. I think that life was far more simple without social media and in some cases, Facebook becomes a platform for complaining more than anything else.
Helen said:
on Tuesday 28-Nov-17 09:08 AM
The time I have changed my phone, i lost my Facebook account, and I have no idea what is my password and username. And it does not bother me much! I am not on Instagram, and I do not know how "to twit", so yes I spend more quality time with my husband and my daughters then on the phone. The social media does get addictive! Rather read more books or articles on the device than try to investigate other lives on the Facebook....
Jessica Apfel said:
on Monday 27-Nov-17 03:28 PM
Social media addicts live their lives through the respective platforms in order to gain public acceptance. Perhaps these addicts are somewhat insecure? However, the news feed is unprecedentedly up to date on twitter and if you want to hear about it first then the 'twitter-sphere' is the place to be!
I do agree though, the general population should reduce their social media in take. Instead of posting a picture of the beautiful flower, rather smell it and enjoy it!
I do frequent Facebook - it is the primary way that I communicate with friends and family abroad.
People have gained fame through the use of social media - could you imagine that the youth of today know more about an 'Instagram Queen' then they do Marie Curie or Maya Angelou.
#thoughts
Mathilda said:
on Monday 27-Nov-17 11:38 AM
I believe you will be Happier without social media,
I actually do not use FB as much anymore because all that people use FB for is to moan and it annoys me so much
I think it’s true especially with Instagram that young people compare themselves to these Instagram Celebrities with their impossible bodies, perfect makeup, hair and their lavish lives they are living and that is just sad
Daniella said:
on Monday 27-Nov-17 11:21 AM
I hate being on my phone( unless I'm playing a game) my friends get super annoyed with me because I take months to reply and that's only because I hate online communication I would much rather have a face to face discussion. As for social media I have facebook, instagram, snapchat etc but hardly ever on any of them, I wouldn't delete them though as they do keep me occupied when I have nothing else to do.
Angelique Jurgens said:
on Monday 27-Nov-17 11:20 AM
Social media is basically to pass time and catch up with people without having to really have any personal relationships. You do not have to phone or actually see people to keep up with their lives. Its a little pathetic but when one gets bored this is what we do. (often without even realizing it). A break from keeping up with social media may just suprise you - you may end up having more time to do things you want to do.
Natasha said:
on Monday 27-Nov-17 10:24 AM
I barely use my facebook I use to have all social media apps but I started deleting it one by one,and these days facebook is really boaring me I don't even want to go on facebook if I go on facebook once a week that is a lot. Even my phone itself is starting to bore me.I ONLY use my phone when I really need to use it other wise I just have it.
Nina said:
on Monday 27-Nov-17 09:11 AM
I agree with this blog. I think constantly using social media turns into a bad habit. I really enjoy it when I go away for a weekend and there is no cellphone signal. That is when you really relax.
Clare said:
on Monday 27-Nov-17 08:46 AM
I only have Facebook other then that I don't really use any other social media and I am not on Facebook a lot because of the ugly yet so sad images shard by people and I cant handle the stuff.
brumilde said:
on Monday 27-Nov-17 07:53 AM
i mostly use facebook just save my photos. and update some things. i once went through a bad break up and wanted some time to myself, so i deleted my whatsapp and facebook. it was pure bliss, some things are a habit and people are in the habit of sitting on their phones all the time. when bored grab your phone. . . myself included. when you have the info of the world in your hands your mind wonders.
david said:
on Monday 27-Nov-17 07:38 AM
what is this facebook, twitter and instagram you speak of?
Johannesburg based attorney specializing in personal injury matters including Road Accident Fund claims and medical negligence matters. My interests include golf, reading and the internet and the way it is constantly developing. I have a passion for life and a desire for less stress!