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I enjoyed reading a short little book recently called “On Tyranny” by Timothy Snyder. The sub-title of the book is 20 lessons from the 20th century and it explains quite a lot about how, when people don’t stand up against dictators or people who flout their democracy, disaster can often follow quickly for that country.
It also gives examples such as when e-mails are leaked, like during the 2016 Presidential campaign, and how piercing somebody’s privacy can humiliate them and disrupt their relationships. The book says, “No-one has a private life that can survive public exposure by hostile directive … words written in one situation make sense only in that context. The very act of removing them from their historical moment and dropping them in another is an act of falsification.”
In short, what he is saying is that there is nobody out there, if all their e-mails are exposed for example, who would look good. Nobody can survive that type of scrutiny or to put it another way – embarrassment. People will always write or say things that can tend to embarrass them at a later stage, even on blogs that become dated with time and may reflect an opinion one held but has long since changed, but to take e-mails out of their context is an act of falsification in the first place, never mind of course it is a violation of privacy. We should all remember that the next time we are gloating over something that has been released somewhere and understand that while we might have a small context from the media or wherever we are seeing those words, that we don’t fully understand why they were written, when they were written or the context to how they were written and the truth is, as the book says, “Words written in one situation make sense only in that context.”
Posted by Michael de Broglio on Friday 04-May-18
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Prishani said:
on Friday 08-Jun-18 02:08 PM
This sounds like an interesting read, I enjoy books like this that give insight on these type of topics especially in the world we live in today where ones online profile can very easily be made public!
Cornelie said:
on Wednesday 06-Jun-18 11:35 AM
It is very much embarrassing if you have wrote something and it does not even have to do with the context of the situation. would love to read the book
Jolene said:
on Monday 04-Jun-18 10:14 AM
Sounds like an interesting book to read. Words can be very dangerous out of context, even a simple text message or email can be blown out of proportion.
Sharne said:
on Friday 01-Jun-18 08:04 AM
This book sounds interesting, People will always find something to talk about.
Liz said:
on Wednesday 30-May-18 03:13 PM
With today's technology it is quite alarming to see how easily emails and other private correspondence is leaked and used to other people's advantage. It is true that context is everything and one should not form an opinion if you do not have all the facts and the full story.
Henrietta said:
on Wednesday 30-May-18 08:47 AM
If there is one thing I hate it is when people take a sentence and form their own sentence with the word. I feel it similar to "word written in one situation make sense only in that context". It takes just one word to stand out and people then make a big thing out of it but doesn't really understand or know what really was meant by it.
Helen said:
on Monday 28-May-18 07:41 AM
"Words" can be very powerful tools. I always follow one rule in life, to be very careful what you say and how you say it. I will look out for this book, sounds like very interesting book to read.
Ashleigh said:
on Thursday 24-May-18 09:12 AM
Not only can things be taken out of the wrong context but People tend to judge based on what is said and they quick to assume before actually finding out more information on what that person was actually trying to say. One person will say one thing wrong, then they are persecuted and its held against them but their intention was most probably good and was purely what they thought was good at the time when they said it. Problem is a lot of people think they are perfect but no one actually isn't.
Michelle said:
on Monday 21-May-18 01:53 PM
You should always think before you say anything. Because once something is said you it can never be unsaid again. All people are different and we never stay the same person we were before, therefor you are allowed to change you something you once said before.
Brenda Du Toit said:
on Thursday 17-May-18 04:45 PM
Sounds like an interesting book to read.We are all human and we all make mistakes.But people will always get something to talk about.I am that kind of person I doesn't really care what people think or say.
Jadine E said:
on Monday 14-May-18 02:33 PM
I would hate to be in leadership especially when your words get used or taken out of context against you.
Tamaryn said:
on Friday 11-May-18 04:38 PM
I would hate to be a politician or famous person in this technological day and age. People are more than happy to take things out of context just for a little bit of scandal or gossip. Context is everything.
courtney said:
on Friday 11-May-18 10:39 AM
A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable but more useful that a life spent doing nothing. It's fine to be embarrassed but learn from it and be very careful when you say something to someone or even about someone.
Michelle D said:
on Friday 11-May-18 07:50 AM
It's bound to happen that some blog, or Facebook post for example, 7 years ago is going to deeply embarrass you now. I think that is normal because the maturity and growth we have now is very different to what it was then. We should be careful, however, to not put up anything that would jeopardize our lives at a later stage. It's alright to be embarrassed but we should avoid having to contextualize things from our past to escape harsh consequences.
Daniella said:
on Wednesday 09-May-18 09:15 AM
"Just because you did something in you past doesn't mean you cant advocate against it now. it doesn't make you a hypocrite. you grew. Don't let other people invalidate your current mindset." - The mind Journal
Alexis said:
on Tuesday 08-May-18 07:40 AM
We are all human and we all make mistakes. The thoughts had once are not nec the thoughts one will have today. People change and evolve and so one cannot be too harsh on a person whom said something way back when. I mean...everyone doe it. But I suppose if you are in a certain position, it is best to be careful
Megan said:
on Monday 07-May-18 02:29 PM
The saying "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never break me" can no longer be taken literally - reputations can be ruined with words said and the written comment, that's more permanent, but then again of the 10 comments there can be 9 great ones and 1 bad one which can either build you or break you. Should we not be bold and take the risk?
Angelique Jurgens said:
on Monday 07-May-18 10:56 AM
I think everyone is human and we will of course tend to "gloat" or be shocked at leaked emails etc. However, we must be cognizant of the fact and remember that we could be put in a similar situation. We also cannot throw rocks while we live in our glass houses.
Dhivia said:
on Monday 07-May-18 10:01 AM
Indeed, sometimes people are so quick to judge things that have been released by the media or information leaked for example by emails but never really put themselves in the shoes of the writer or try to understand in what context it was written in. This books sounds like a must ready, very insightful.
Dhivia said:
on Monday 07-May-18 10:00 AM
Indeed, sometimes people are so quick to judge things that have been released by the media or information leaked for example by emails but never really put themselves in the shoes of the writer or try to understand in what context it was written in. This books sounds like a must ready, very insightful.
Natasha said:
on Monday 07-May-18 09:02 AM
Words are very dangerous it can hurt you and it can make people think things about you that is not true.And people believe anything they read or hear
Zindy said:
on Monday 07-May-18 08:28 AM
People will read or believe what they want to or assume without knowing truth. Its only human nature. People who want to instigate others lives and have there own problems. Its sad actually.
Nikita said:
on Friday 04-May-18 03:50 PM
Words are always very dangerous without context. That's why I always say not to fight over text messages because it can so easily be misunderstood and conveyed to mean what you want it to mean rather than what was meant.
Melissa said:
on Friday 04-May-18 03:45 PM
Sounds like an interesting book to read. People will always find something to talk about and that is usually the people that doesn't have anything better to do. I am that person that doesn't really care what people think or say about me. If you don't have something better to do with your time as to follow other people around or say something about them, then rather keep quiet and get a life...
Mathilda Du Preez said:
on Friday 04-May-18 12:16 PM
These days you have to be so careful about what you say whether it be in a public space or on social media as the statement or comment made might come and haunt you later on.
It’s sometimes better just to keep to yourself and not broadcast your life and views everywhere
Fikile said:
on Friday 04-May-18 10:09 AM
It's never easy when you have people always commenting on your life and never understanding what you had to go through to get were you are, all the fights, all the studding and more. they still want to bad mouth you. it's important to keep your head high no matter what people say about, just remember how you got were you are and all the struggles you went through to the
Bianca N said:
on Friday 04-May-18 09:32 AM
We must all remember that we are not perfect and we don't say the right things at the right times, and we can very easily be embarrassed by something we said or did a while ago. People who are in the public eye really have a difficult time having privacy and the media is so quick to take something out of context and portray it in the wrong light.
Lucretia said:
on Friday 04-May-18 08:44 AM
It is very unfair to hold something against someone that might have been written / spoken weeks, months or years ago. People are allowed to change their thinking. This is the problem with media with writing things. You may feel a certain way today and write about it. In a years time and through circumstances and research you change your mind. Does it mean you are a hypocrite...no, it means you have done what is your right to do, you have simply changed your mind.
Nina said:
on Friday 04-May-18 08:40 AM
Sounds like an insightful book. I believe it is necessary sometimes to read books like this, just to remind you about the important things in life and how to react in certain situations.
Clare said:
on Friday 04-May-18 08:36 AM
I'm am a bold person and always stand out I but I would still rather be out of the lime light as I can not deal with 100 people following me around and then making stories out of my life that could be true or not so I am who I am just I would never want to be Famous.
Jadine Richards said:
on Friday 04-May-18 08:21 AM
This is very true. Everything has to be put in context as anything taken out of context can be so easily manipulated. It is a dangerous world that we live in today but the public also has a responsibility to apply some thought to situations such as leaked emails.
sarah said:
on Friday 04-May-18 08:19 AM
People will always find something to talk about other people about. When you became famous that is one of the things you need to deal with. I would like to read it sometime
Jessica Apfel said:
on Friday 04-May-18 07:56 AM
With each passing day we are exposed to so much more and with each passing day we are learning and absorbing - that being said, it is very true that our opinions and feeling towards a situation may change significantly over time! It is imperative to contextualise any phrase - how adpt would it be if PM May had to make a comment like this; 'The political and military position of socialism should be further cemented so that it can be an impregnable fortress'
That comment was made by Kim Jung-un - a largely controversial player!
david said:
on Friday 04-May-18 07:03 AM
i would hate nothing more than being famous and in the public eye the whole time. much better to be a 'grey', nameless, faceless person. just another face in the crowd. you can do what you like, when you like, and nobody will know anything about it.
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