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Jared Diamond is a Professor of geography whose books I have really enjoyed. He previously won the Pulitzer Prize for his book, “Guns, Germs, and Steel” and he writes a lot about how societies rise and fall and what leads to the growth of populations. His latest book is extremely interesting and covers a wide variety of topics, including the war between Finland and Russia, Chilli, Australia and Germany, but what I found particularly interesting was that he thinks one of the big dangers in many countries is the way that people are getting on. He says that to a large extent that is because of how much TV people watch and how they no longer communicate in person by electronic devices. He says because we no longer experience each other as live people and just see each other as digital messages on a screen, we don’t have the normal human tendency to not be terribly rude to somebody who is directly in front of you. As he says, “… but we lose those inhibitions when people are reduced to words on a screen. It is much easier to be rude and dismissive towards words on a screen than towards a live person looking you in the face. Once we’ve thus got accustomed to being abusive at a distance, it is an easier next step to being abusive also to a live person.”
Posted by Michael de Broglio on Wednesday 24-Jul-19
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Michelle D said:
on Friday 20-Sep-19 02:57 PM
This has actually become quite relevant in my life of late. People underestimate the resolve of face to face conversation rather than just putting things down in a WhatsApp. I myself am guilty of it from time to time because of anxiety etc. but it is undoubtedly better for the soul as well as to avoid miscommunication to rather do it through words face to face.
Zindy said:
on Monday 16-Sep-19 08:54 AM
Sounds very Interesting and sounds true from what we see and experience daily with people. People you can call can be extra rude on the phone yet when you meet them they are the complete opposite.
Bianca Taljaard said:
on Monday 16-Sep-19 08:19 AM
This is so true, i am not a big reader but this would be nice to read.
Joyce said:
on Thursday 05-Sep-19 04:51 PM
professor Jared Diamond's books sounds interesting and attractive to readers
Claudia B said:
on Monday 02-Sep-19 08:48 AM
I do like my reading, and I will definitely look out for this book. Face to face is always better than over the phone,
Shristi said:
on Sunday 01-Sep-19 05:03 PM
This seems like a very interesting read. I have to agree with him though. I however prefer the old school method of speaking to someone face to face rather than over a phone.
Melissa said:
on Thursday 29-Aug-19 07:45 AM
I agree. Your emotions or feelings can't be expressed through messages or emails or whatsoever. The best way of communication is face to face and will always stay the best method
Thabitha said:
on Friday 23-Aug-19 09:19 AM
Lately we are spending too much time on our screens you must just see when people are in one room they talk less but laughing with their screens
Melissa van Tellingen said:
on Friday 23-Aug-19 08:52 AM
Looks like another interesting read. It's really true. We have become so comfortable behind the screens of our smartphones and computers that we do not consider the person on the other side.
Ashleigh said:
on Friday 16-Aug-19 12:43 PM
Very True and interesting. I would like to read this. I think social networking has affected empathy in people.
Prishani said:
on Wednesday 14-Aug-19 06:22 PM
This is interesting and so true when put into everyday life! We are so often texting and sending emails that we do not always take note of the tone which can very easily be misinterpreted. Must have been an informative read!
sandra said:
on Thursday 08-Aug-19 05:47 PM
Unfortunately, a person these days will not go to the person with whom he/she has a problem with and discuss it face-to-face, rather messages will be sent via a technological means directly, or indirectly to the person. Unfortunately we live in a society where technology has taken over and gatherings are not the same as it used to be because ie. everyone sits on their phones anyway.
Megan said:
on Thursday 01-Aug-19 12:37 PM
I do often do a double take before sending messages because I relate to the emotion but more often than not I misinterpret the other persons messages because we don't think the same. I try to be as much the person I am in real life as over the phone or email, it just never gets read that way, leading to the "miscommunication" talk.
Henrietta said:
on Wednesday 31-Jul-19 03:41 PM
I absolutely agree, we don't see people as human beings anymore and communicating by electronic devices takes out emotions you would have felt had you do it in person. I always say that sending an email and the other person reading it is different the person reading it does not know that you didn't mean something offensive, it depends on the mood of the person reading the email, sms etc. I can be mad, grumpy and receive and email and the point of the email will completely miss me because I'm looking at it in a negative way and not the way the person sending the email meant it. It's also easier losing in touch with friends this way because weeks and months can go by without you sending a sms etc and the friendship just dies. Cellphones have made our lives easier to a point when in emergency etc but it also ruins us.
Victoria said:
on Wednesday 31-Jul-19 10:00 AM
That is so true we do not experience each other as live people. Everyone needs to taste their words before they say them even when sending message. It is easier to be rude over a message then in person.
Helen said:
on Wednesday 31-Jul-19 08:32 AM
Prof Diamond is correct in his research and I would defiantly will look out for this book. I do not like to resolve any arguments on the electronic devices, I rather prefer to communicate in person - face to face. Always hard to face someone when you argue or trying to resolve a problem and a lot easier to be dismissive on the screen!
Brumilde Cronje said:
on Wednesday 31-Jul-19 07:56 AM
It sounds like a sound concept, and one that we all can comment on. We dont think that our body language and communication skills decrease with technology.
Angelique Jurgens said:
on Friday 26-Jul-19 01:42 PM
Electronic text can definitely be construed in a way not intended. I know this all to well. I am often quite short in messages or emails and I can see how it can come across as rude. I am working on it! I agree though, much easier to say what we want and be dismissive over the screen than it is in person. It doesn't really sound like an easy to digest book - not my vibe.
Alexis said:
on Thursday 25-Jul-19 04:52 PM
Why be abusive at all...It is in our nature and moods however...and sometimes you can just ignore a message for a day or two before you are in the right state of mind to answer.
Mathilda Du Preez said:
on Thursday 25-Jul-19 11:22 AM
Most effective way of communicating is face-to-face communication, as people can interpret messages better and read verbal and non-verbal ques to determine the mood of how that message is meant to be received.
All communication platforms that are not face-to-face can cause a barrier in communication as one cannot see the person’s non-verbal ques and can cause message to be received incorrectly and can lead to unnecessary conflict and misunderstandings.
It is important to ensure when sending an email or “chatting” on WhatsApp that one does it in such a way that the message is received in the way you intended it to be received.
Courtney said:
on Wednesday 24-Jul-19 03:48 PM
People are sometimes so sensitive!
That's why n prefer speaking to someone in person so that they can see my facial expressions when I have a conversation.
Michelle Smillie said:
on Wednesday 24-Jul-19 09:26 AM
I fully agree with Prof Diamond. Electronic devices and communication, although handy and quicker, is really not a good substitute for live communication. Extra factors like facial expressions, body clues, attitudes and such are no longer present and a message can easily be misunderstood because of these factors not being present. Also, like Prof Diamond said, one tends to be more civilised when talking in person than via electronic communication. However, I do not see this changing any time soon and I think that is a little bit sad.
Sarah said:
on Wednesday 24-Jul-19 09:21 AM
This book seems interesting, Some people have no filters and can be rude face to face and even more rude over text messages. I try to think before i speak. I really don't want to get into a huge fight with someone over something small
Lucretia said:
on Wednesday 24-Jul-19 08:40 AM
I have to agree with him wholeheartedly there, it is easy to be rude over an email yet sing a different tune when face to face...............have we just become pawns to technology.
patrick said:
on Wednesday 24-Jul-19 08:29 AM
I share his sentiments. Is easier to be rude on e-mail for example than when someone is talking to you face to face.
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