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I think it is important that we all strive to be the best that we can be, and when things go right, one accepts that there are many other factors that make each of us who we are. Some of those factors are about good luck or bad luck, and for example, the parents that you are born too and their economic status can really determine your future to a large extent. If you grow up in the right family, with a culture, for example, of reading, and parents who promote University and further education, then you are very likely to go and do those things, and so usually, but not guaranteed of course, get a little further ahead in life. If you don’t, you are at a considerable disadvantage – and it is one of the reasons that I never really had problems with reasonable taxes.
The bottom line is that nobody is self-made, you don’t just become who you are because you are “talented”, but it rather depends on a lot of factors, for example, in my case, getting lucky with parents and a mother who promoted education very heavily. I was reading newspapers at the age of 8, and I cannot help but feel that that focus that I got is entirely responsible for what I have managed to achieve in terms of my education and a little bit of business success. It is always important to understand that there are so many people out there who never got the chance. By the same token, there are people who sit and do jobs, who do get lots of chances, who blow every cent that they earn, who decide that indulging themselves is better than giving their children an education, and who ruin all the opportunities they get in life and for those, I have never really had any sympathy. The one thing they always have lots of are excuses.
Posted by Michael de Broglio on Wednesday 16-May-12
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Robyn said:
on Friday 18-May-12 07:40 AM
I agree that parenting plays a roll but it ultimately is your own decision if you want to succeed or do something with your life. You cannot blame your parents for everything. You get to a stage where you should grow up and realise that if you don't take action, no one is going to do it for you. You got a brain, so use it. There's this one story I'll always remember of two brothers who had an alcoholic father, their mom died when they were both young. One brother turned out to be just like his dad and the other succeeded in business and he turned out to be well off etc. An interview was done with both of them and the question was: 'How did you end up here?' And both of them answered: 'I have an alcoholic for a father, that's why.' So in the end it's your own decisions that get you where you are and make you who you are, no one else's.
Julie said:
on Thursday 17-May-12 03:03 PM
Your entire life is based on decisions you make. Parenting plays a vital roll in raising your kids. Usually it's "monkey see, monkey do" - but also not in all cases. Who you are and what you become entirely depends on you. Some think they are worthless if they don't have a degree of some sort - in such cases you get "educated idiots" with a degree and not much else. In the end, my opinion, it doesn't matter "what" you are, but "who" you are.
Lucretia said:
on Thursday 17-May-12 01:05 PM
I am in agreement with certain factors there. One is a product of ones upbringing but, more importantly, one makes ones own choices - you are either going to succeed in life or you are not, and it has more to do with ATTITUDE than anything else. If you want to be successful, you will be!
Bernadette said:
on Thursday 17-May-12 12:29 PM
You make your own decisions in life and those decisions determine what kind of person you are and what kind of person you will become.
Helen said:
on Thursday 17-May-12 09:31 AM
I totally agree that the parents are playing amazing roll in their kids future, but in some cases you will see parents are drinking, do not really work, never had education, but kids working very hard in life to study and pay for their own studies, in another way parents can be very wealthy and successful, but the end of the day this child are taking drugs and become a criminal.
Kalinke said:
on Wednesday 16-May-12 04:49 PM
I’lI have to agree that the way you’ve been raised definitely plays a roll, but at the end of the day you determine your own success. It reminds me of the book, “Rich dad, Poor dad”
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